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Sam (our oldest) didn't have an official graduation, which is why you were not notified about it. His credits from NJ met the criteria to graduate in MD. So he didn't officially graduate. He was part of a ceremony for his old schools graduation because all the kids at his school in his grade did it - whether they had the credits to really graduate or not.

So that's a long-winded way of saying a big deal wasn't made for Sam's graduation, so we can't make a big deal of Asher's (our youngest). Does that make sense?

We don't believe in picking favorites with kids. It's incredibly damaging to each kid separately as well as relationships between the siblings. My parents did that, and continue to, and it has ruined us as siblings.

So one of my SILs is pissed she has just gotten notified of Asher's graduation but was never notified of Sam's. So I explained the above via text. I hope it settles her down.

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